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Thursday, October 27, 2005

My son

What follows is a very personal post. Im not really sure why Im posting it. I guess i just want to get this out....... For a few days now, I've been thinking about talking to my readers about my son. My son is four years old, with kinda dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. His name is Joey, and as any mother or father can understand, he is the center of my life. I guess my desire to talk about him stems from the fact that on my blog I dont have to listen to anyone try to convince me that everything will be fine blah blah blah. My son is autistic ( or so the doctors claim, but thats a whole different subject) He has the vocabulary skills of a 18 month to 2 year old. He attends a special ed class at preschool and gets speech and occupational therapy. For 2 years I let everyone around me tell me that my son was fine. I ignored that voice inside me that said something wasnt right. When he didnt start talking by 2, I let people convince me that he was just a late bloomer. I failed myself, and worst of all I failed my son. He is improving now, but it makes me crazy to think I lost so much time. Autistic children do better the earlier they recieve the necessary therapy and interventions. I guess this is my insane way of telling my readers to never doubt their instincts when it comes to their children.

12 Comments:

  • At 12:01 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Don't put yourself down, we all do things as parents that we think back upon and wish we could change, the important thing is you got him some help and he is doing better. If you think like that, you will drive yourself crazy.

     
  • At 1:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i agree w/ syn, as a parent we don't want to see anything wrong w/ our children. For them to be in pain or be physically or mentally challenged in some way is heartbreaking. You are giving him the tools he needs to advance by the special school u have put him in. Love him and be there for him as i'm sure u do and are, that's what we as parents are here for.

     
  • At 10:29 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    i see that the others have sent the appropriate hallmark card sort of things to you. that's nice but whatever. not to downplay what you have posted but get him in a fast car, drive like hell and crank the radio. i'll bet he's not so very different from other kids after all. all children love rob zombie at top volume with wind blowing through their hair. you did let his hair grow out right? oh, and as long as he likes boobs he is alright with me.

     
  • At 11:47 PM, Blogger Rose said…

    Tut: i would let his hair grow out if my mother in law would quit getting it cut ><

    To the others: I knew something wasnt right with my son. I let my family, friends, and coworkers convince me to "wait it out" (yes you too chem :P)

     
  • At 3:03 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Rose, fuck your mother in law. He is your child, let his hair grow as long as you or he wants. Tell her, BLOW ME (from Tut). Had a mother in law like that once. But not anymore. Fucking Old Whores!!

     
  • At 3:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    we are drunk and pissed so this is the conclusion to my username

    "VENDETTA SEEKING WHORE!!"

     
  • At 3:06 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    WE!? WTF is this we?

     
  • At 10:45 AM, Blogger Rose said…

    while I would love to tell her exactly that, she is my husbands mom so I told him to deal with her. that way I dont have to put up with her dramam queen antics

     
  • At 3:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    if you give chem your e-mail address for me, i will forward you pictures of children having all kinds of fun that i would approve of. whenever in doubt about things, just ask yourself, 'what would tut do?'

     
  • At 9:35 AM, Blogger Rose said…

    chem already has my e-mail addy. besides, isnt it already up in my profile thingy anyway?

     
  • At 5:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    maybe. i'll go see.

     
  • At 5:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    yes it is, i can't figure it out. i will have chem fwd it.

     

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